“I am a loving and caring person”
We love our families dearly. They are the place where we find unconditional love and endless support. However, this can also be the most challenging part of our lives. Our family members hold a very fixed view about us. They tend to believe that their view is correct and although they know us very well, people change. They may have not noticed the changes, or perhaps have not changed much themselves. This is where it can get a little difficult, as they keep relating to you in the same way. It can be confusing, frustrating and sometimes even cruel.
Let go. Give yourself the chance to find clarity. You may find it easier to be with them and start to heal old wounds. One of the most important lessons you will learn, is to love and be loved in return, unconditionally.
Feelings of resentment are natural when we feel that we have been undermined, betrayed, disappointed and let down. Forgiveness is quite often a lot easier said than done because we either do not want to, or can not.
Whilst you are in decision about what choice to make, consider the impact upon yourself. Think about the way you are feeling, and how this person’s actions have hurt you. No matter what has happened and taken place to cause the situation, the person who has hurt you chose their own action. They have the same choices available to them just as you have. There is no doubt that although it may appear they feel better by hurting you, that in fact, they do not.
Release your anger and do not hold on to it because it is only hurting you. Forgiveness is a wonderful part of life and learning to forgive is being able to make room for any necessary healing to take place. Give yourself time to be able to forgive. To learn that it is not as important, what happens, as it is, how we deal with it. Choose lovingly for yourself. Tell yourself, ‘I am a loving and caring person, and I only attract loving and caring people into my life!’ and that is what will happen. To free your heart of anger, it is not necessary to forgive the action but the person.
We accept the sky is blue and the grass is green. We can even accept the challenges in life and the past however, we struggle with the future, the process of life, our dreams coming true, the idea miracles do happen, and our gut feelings to change something in our life. Doubting the hair standing up on the back of our neck could be an Angel passing by and we will find someone who will love and accept us, for who we truly are, and so on.
We hold on to our fears and keep trying to push forward with little reward, for all of our hard work and efforts. We are not happy but cannot figure out why.
Let yourself be. Trust in the process of your own life. Rest in the understanding that your life unfolds in the way it is meant. Accept that wherever you are, there will be good days and there will be bad days. Try to see yourself through the eyes of your heart. Allow its wisdom to be your teacher. Tell yourself, ‘I don’t mind not knowing where I am heading!’
You will be surprised where you will carry yourself!
The first lesson in gaining wisdom is being able to say, ‘I don’t know.’ Wisdom is being able to accept, and acceptance is wisdom. Accept yourself and everyone around you in the same way you accept the grass beneath your feet is green!
You are the most important person in your life.
You are, where all of your dreams begin. Believe, that you can have everything your heart desires. Think about you and all your wonderful aspects. This is what makes you special. Accept and love all of you because there is nobody like you.
“The only thing in life achieved without effort is failure….” - axiom
Surrender any doubts or fears you may have about yourself and begin the journey through all the wonders of you! What you will find will be beautiful. Start with, ‘thank you’… be kind to yourself. Allow peace and happiness into your life.
© 2004 by Biljana
